When chatting with a girl, the quality of the beginning will basically determine the attitude of the girl in the subsequent chat. So what is the best way to start a chat with a girl? If you don’t want to screw up in the first sentence, you must abide by the following 5 words at the beginning. Rules:
What is the best way to start a chat with a girl?
1. Short
It is best not to exceed 50 words in the first sentence. If the first sentence It’s just a long talk, and girls will think you are crazy and won’t think anything else!
2. The sentences must be smooth and easy to understand
If there are typos and typos in the first sentence Wrong sentences, or some memes that are only popular in your small circle, as well as professional terms, the girl will not understand it after seeing it. She doesn’t know what you said, how to reply?
3. Confidence
"Miss, would you mind if I take the liberty of adding you as a friend?"
Girls, do you mind? ?If you mind, it won’t pass.
Many brothers like to ask a girl something like this after becoming friends, to make sure that the girl is willing to chat with them before they dare to chat with confidence. As everyone knows, it’s okay if you don’t ask. After asking, girls almost no longer want to talk to you.
This kind of unconfident words is not only purely redundant, but also reflects that you regard yourself as very weak and inferior in your heart. You subconsciously think that girls are much taller than you, and you are trying to climb up to her. , that’s why I ask this question.
To put it simply, the first sentence is very unconfident, which is equivalent to telling girls: I am not very good at this person, please consider whether you want to accept me?
Since you don’t That's too good, the girl will definitely not accept it.
4. Unique
"Hello" "What are you doing" "Miss, you are so cute" Girls have seen these words thousands of times, especially pretty girls. She won't waste her time on each of thousands of such people, so only if your first sentence is special will she be able to select you.
5. Don’t check household registration
Many people immediately say hello to their favorite girl after adding her as a friend. This kind of hurried greeting behavior can only be mastered by a few chatting geniuses. Most people are nothing more than the following content: "Miss, what do you call me?/Miss, where are you from?" ?/Miss, do you have a boyfriend?" and the like.
Girls’ reaction: Crazy!
Whether it is a boy or a girl, they will be bored when they see each other asking questions as soon as they come up. Who are you? Why should I tell you? You?
I believe that if the roles were reversed, a girl would ask the brothers how old you are, where you are from, what you do for a living, what kind of girls you like, etc., even if you like her at first. , after being asked this question, you will feel that you were blind just now to fall in love with such a person!
