How to chat with people nearby? Many social software now have nearby people functions, such as WeChat, QQ, Douyin, Momo, Tantan... You can easily chat with friends in the same city, but for many honest people Generally speaking, I still don't know how to chat with people nearby. On the one hand, I can't let go, and on the other hand, I don't know how to ask out. Let’s take a look at the chatting skills to ask her out!
1. Chat rhythm
and Chatting and developing relationships with people nearby is actually online dating to a certain extent. "Don't be deceived when engaging in online dating." Most of those who ask you for real "data" have bad intentions. After all, there are many scammers on the Internet. , wine tray, fairy dance all kinds of tricks, so it is necessary to maintain a precautionary mentality.
If the other girl refuses to talk to you, don’t be too entangled. After all, there are more than just her nearby. If you really can’t flirt with her, just change her partner. The best partner is if you flirt with her and she can reply to you in time. Yes, make girls like this your primary target.
2. Show value in chat
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1. Perception of appearance
2. Perception of work
3. Economic conditions
4. Level of generosity
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5. Communication of values ??
In daily chats, send a few handsome photos, describe your work content in a more flattering manner, send a large red envelope from time to time, or buy a gift , spend money generously when meeting, and share more about each other’s lives when you have time.
3. Avoid forceful invitations
Some men are stubborn when asking girls out, and girls make excuses If it is inconvenient, he will insist on asking the girl when it is convenient and will never give up until he asks. This will easily put pressure on the girl and cause her to refuse to date you. When she politely refuses to date, it means that she does not want to date you for the time being. Dating.
Therefore, a forced invitation is to impose your will on her thoughts, and it is easy for her to resist or even block you. Therefore, when chatting with people nearby, do not be too specific about the time of the date, and propose it like this. way is easier for her to accept. At the same time, this will make you appear generous and not put too much pressure on girls.
