Most of the time, boys take the initiative to talk to girls, and girls usually just accept it passively. But if boys take the initiative for a long time, they will also wonder: Is it because girls don’t take the initiative to chat with them? Is it because they don’t like them? After all, when I really like a girl, I can't help but look for her. Let’s analyze it below: Can a girl who likes you really resist looking for you?
1. Boys suspect girls of not taking the initiative
In fact, most boys will ask the question "Can a girl who likes you really resist not looking for you?" I just want to know if the girl I like also likes me! For example, you met a girl you like at a friend gathering one day and successfully added her WeChat account.
After the initial simple greetings, you know what kind of job the girl is engaged in, what she is busy with recently, and what her hobbies are. You chat with girls every now and then, and you don’t know when it became your essential homework before going to bed to pay attention to the girls’ social media updates every day.
When you have been paying attention to a girl for a long time and contacted her more often, you realize that you seem to like her. , so you start to care about whether girls have you in their hearts. Have you ever taken the initiative to chat with you? If a girl doesn't take the initiative, does it mean she doesn't have you in her heart? And boys think they can endure it for three to five days without taking the initiative, but they will definitely not be able to bear it in the long run. Then the boy starts to panic, thinking that the girl may not like you if she doesn't take the initiative to contact you.
2. Why don’t girls take the initiative to talk to boys?
In fact, before a relationship is established, even if a girl likes you, it is normal for her not to take the initiative to chat with you. Why do you say this? Girls are reserved and shy by nature. She will think that taking the initiative to find boys will make her look disrespectful. Therefore, boys do not need to judge whether a girl likes you by whether she takes the initiative to chat with you, nor does he need to look at the feedback to you. Whether he is willing to chat and date with you is the most important thing.
There are no rules in relationships, and you don’t have to care about who is active and who is passive. When you are framed by your own three-view thinking, it will be difficult for the relationship between you to make progress. When chatting and getting along with girls, what you need to do is to pay attention to the girls' needs, pay attention to the girls' feelings, and pay attention to the girls' experiences.
In psychology, if you can give the other person the experience they want in a relationship, you will definitely be the best in the other person's mind. An existence that is difficult to replace. In addition, because you pay attention to feelings and experiences, the other person will feel very comfortable with you, and you will naturally become a heavyweight in the other person's heart. At this time, it is a matter of course to upgrade the relationship.
So boys, don’t worry about whether a girl doesn’t take the initiative to contact you because she has no feelings for you. Instead, look at the girl’s attitude towards you from other aspects.Individuals are the details that matter.
