Dating is a way to get to know the opposite sex, but sometimes there is no topic when chatting. This article will provide you with solutions from multiple perspectives.
1. Understand the other person’s interests and hobbies
In blind dates, we can ask each other about their interests and hobbies. Start a conversation. For example, if the other person likes to travel, we can ask him/her where he/she likes to travel most, or where he/she wants to travel, etc. This not only allows us to understand each other better, but also leads to more topics.
2. Chat about work and life
In addition to hobbies, we can also talk about each other’s work and life. For example, ask the other person whether they are busy at work and whether they are under any pressure; or ask the other person what they usually like to do to relax themselves, etc. Such topics can also help us understand each other better and show our care and consideration.
3. Talk about future plans
During a blind date, we can also talk about each other’s future plans. For example, ask the other person what goals they want to achieve in the future, or what time they plan to complete something, etc. Such topics not only allow us to understand each other better, but also show our goals and plans.
4. Talk about common topics
If we find that the other party has some common topics with us, then we can start with these topics. For example, if we both like watching movies, we can talk about which movies we have watched recently, or recommend some good movies, etc. Such topics can not only bring us closer, but also enhance our feelings for each other.
It is a very common problem that there is no topic during a blind date, but as long as we think from multiple angles, we can find a suitable topic to start a chat. Whether it's understanding each other's interests and hobbies, chatting about work and life, talking about future plans, or talking about common topics, it can help us understand each other better and enhance our relationship.
