Most boys’ chats with the girls they like are shallow interactions. Even if they chat for a long time, it is difficult to further upgrade the relationship. So how do you chat with the girls you like to quickly get closer to each other? ?Here are some methods to teach you.
1. Chat as an acquaintance
No matter what relationship you are with the girl you like, if you chat If you always like to ask questions, it will appear that your emotional intelligence and love intelligence are relatively low. This kind of questions are only liked by strangers. Getting along with the girl you like as a stranger will only make the relationship between you worse and worse. cold.
Therefore, we need to chat with girls as acquaintances and convey to girls that you understand her very well. For example, we use details to praise girls for their uniqueness, and use cold reading to guess girls. Be careful, then your status in girls' hearts will be different.
2. Nicknames
Only acquaintances usually give nicknames. Giving a girl you like a nickname that is intimate and interesting is also a way to build familiarity with the girl, especially When you have an ambiguous chat with a girl, you can deepen your impression in the girl's mind.
For example, if a girl has no resistance to delicious food, you can call her "snackie" or "little lazy pig"; for example, if a girl has big eyes, you can call her "little panda" or "little cutie." wait.
3. Show high value
Girls have no resistance to capable boys. On the one hand, WeChat friends Circles are a powerful tool to show high value. On the other hand, they can be reflected in chats. The purpose is to increase girls' favorability towards you.
(1) How to build a circle of friends
Some boys show that they will put luxury cars, mansions, yachts, etc. in their circle of friends. This is not actually showing high value, but If you show off yourself too exaggeratedly, girls will leave you because they don't feel your availability.
It is best to display down-to-earth and life-oriented photos in your circle of friends, such as photos of yourself cooking and traveling, or photos of gatherings with friends, or photos showing your serious work, etc. Photos that are friendly and down-to-earth will make you appear real, and girls can also feel your availability.
(2) How to show high value in chat
The best way to open it is to tell stories, and indirectly highlight your high value from the side.
For example, you can talk to a girl like this: "I have been very busy recently. The company has asked me to be responsible for a new project. I must produce results within 30 days (send a photo of my work)"
< p> "I just came back from a trip to Zhangjiajie with my friends a few days ago. The scenery and food there are so tempting. I really want to settle there (send a photo of the trip)"“My parents asked me to be the chef at our family dinner today (send photos of myself cooking)”
4. Learn to listen h2>
When chatting, on the one hand, you should share and talk to girls frankly, on the other hand, you should also learn to listen to each other’s joys and worries, explore girls’ emotions and feelings through listening, and give feedback, express trust, and exchange information. , share your feelings, so as to further bring the intimacy between you closer.
Of course, after listening, you must also learn to guide girls and guide them to reveal more information and feelings. The so-called guidance means asking girls more open-ended questions. After subtle influence, the topics between you will continue to flow.
5. Imitate each other
You can directly imitate the catchphrases, tone of voice, etc. that girls like to use when chatting. The advantage of chatting with girls in this way is that girls will subconsciously know I think you and her are the same type of person.
For example, if girls often say "cut, xxx", then you should also add the word "cut" in the chat.
For example, girls often have the expression package of "covering their faces and laughing", then you can also directly imitate the expressions of girls.
For example, when girls chat, they often use modal particles such as "ah, acridine, eh", etc. Then you should imitate the girls' modal particles.
The above is what I shared today on how to chat with the girl you like on WeChat? Learn these 5 tricks to easily capture the heart of a girl.
