In the relationship between the sexes, most girls are reserved, so boys are generally the ones who take the initiative. However, there are also a small number of girls who are not so reserved and will be more proactive. When chatting, they will generously ask boys "How do they feel about her?" "This kind of ambiguous topic, how should you answer this situation without making mistakes?
First of all, let's understand under what circumstances the next girl will ask "How do you feel about me?" words.
1. Girls are testing you
Girls are more sensitive to feelings, so when she When she finds that a boy pays more attention to her, she will start to guess whether the boy likes her.
At this time, girls will test boys through some questions, and want to know what kind of intentions the boys have. If the boy overly expresses his affection or does not express his affection at this time, the girl will lose interest. For example:
(1) Excessive release of good feelings
Female: How do you feel about me?
Male: I feel very comfortable with you, I like it you.
Female:...But I just treat you as a friend.
Male: I will work hard.
Female:...
(2) Not releasing good feelings
Female: How do you feel about me?
Male: No feelings (pretending to be cold)
Female: Oh.
Male: I just think you are pretty good (trying to save you)
Female:...
The first situation is that the need for girls to be released is too strong , and the second one is that the sense of demand is too weak, neither of which is the correct answer.
2. A girl wants to know if you like her
Although it is very common for girls to take the initiative in love. Few, but if a girl really likes you, she will also take the initiative to ask you questions about your feelings for her, and she is actually telling you that she likes you.
Then when a girl asks you how you feel about her, how do you judge whether it is a preference for you or a test?
You can judge it based on the girl’s tone and emotional state when she says this. to judge.
If a girl asks you this question face to face, and does not dare to look directly into your eyes, showing a shy expression, it means that she has a crush on you.
If she asks you this question calmly, without even showing an expression, she may be testing you.
When we already know that a girl asking you how you feel about her is a way to test or express your affection, we can respond to her in a targeted manner..
For a girl you don’t like, treat her as a friend. You can say this:
In my eyes, you have always been cute and cheerful, just like my sister. Same.
I really didn’t deliberately feel it, but it feels good to be with you.
For the girl we like, we can answer in two situations. One is the stage of being able to clearly understand each other's mood, and the other is the stage of mutual acquaintance. When answering a girl here, you must answer according to the situation
1) Clearly know the other person's mind
Now we If you have clearly understood the girl's feelings and know that the other party likes you, then when you reply to the girl, you can express your love loudly, for example:
During the days we have known each other, I have always I remember the first day we met, the white dress you wore was very cute, and I felt very good about you. In fact, I have always (confessed)
In my heart, you are the only one, and no one can compare with me. superior.
2) At this stage of mutual acquaintance
At this stage, your relationship with the girl is still just a friend or an ambiguous relationship. At this time, direct confession will be very risky and expose too much need. , to make yourself lose value, so when replying to a girl, you can do this:
What do you think? How do you think I feel about you now? (Throw the question to her)
Look into her eyes: How you feel about me, how I feel about you.
